Christmas and all its associated stresses
can often put a strain onto the big day itself.
Family arguments, drunken teenagers, ungrateful children and sheer
exhaustion can sometimes leave you wishing you hadn’t bothered.
So how can you ‘do’ Christmas feeling like
you’ve had a restful and relaxing break, rather than like you’re in dire need
of another one?
Here you will find five of the best tips
for surviving the season and escaping out the other end relatively unscathed:
Suspend
Christmas if you need to
Tip number one may seem a little
counter-intuitive, but it’s important for us to remove the notion that
Christmas can only be celebrated on
25th December. You can have a
Christmas Day on whatever date you need or want to. I have some friends that share an intimate
Christmas day alone together, and then organize a big Christmas event for the
entire family at a later date that suits everyone– usually January or February
time.
Organize
Good organization will be the key to
keeping life as stress free as possible during the Christmas period. Make yourself a checklist, including as many
members of the family as possible (see more about delegation later) to make
sure nothing gets forgotten. If you are
expecting visitors, make sure the sleeping arrangements are sorted well in advance,
and that you have enough sleeping bags, pillows and blankets. Get your Christmas cards posted as early as
possible, and generally try to take care of all the little jobs well in advance
of the day itself.
Be
Realistic
I think most of us have a picture perfect
view of what Christmas should look and feel like, but reality often falls
somewhat short of this. It’s essential
to remember that the most important thing is that you and your family have lots
of fun. This doesn’t mean working your
fingers to the bone so you are left too tired to enjoy yourself, or spending to
excess and leaving yourself in debt for the next 12 months.
Everything
in Moderation
Christmas seems all about doing everything
to the extreme. However, there isn’t
much fun in eating so much you feel (and look) like Santa, or drinking yourself
under the Christmas table. Have a little
bit of everything you fancy, but try not to go too crazy, however tempting it
may be.
Delegate
Assign everyone with jobs before the big
day, and then pin the list somewhere central so everyone knows what they’re
responsible for. Get everyone involved
(even the kids) and you’ll soon find even the most tedious of job becomes fun
with everyone pitching in. It will also
make sure you’re not left feeling like a rag-doll on Boxing Day.
A
final word…
Have Fun!
A week from now, no one will remember whether the roast potatoes were
hard or the gravy was lumpy, and =he kids will have forgotten about all the
presents they ‘didn’t get’. Keep things
in perspective and remember the most important thing is sharing quality time
with the people that matter most to you.
This article was written by Kathryn
Thompson, a UK based freelance writer with three young children who will be
reading these tips religiously to make sure she survives the Christmas
period. Kathryn is currently frantically
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I like the idea of having a different day! :)
ReplyDeleteI need all the help I can get! Thank you
ReplyDeleteGreat tips!
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